"unless he's all yours..."

i'm no saint when it comes to relationships. but i do learn from mistakes. and so i hope that today, as my cous-friend carrie (not her real name..hehe) celebrates her birthday, she'd get slammed in the head for dating a total jerk. ouch.

the guy i'm talking about has a longtime girlfriend overseas while he's sneaking in with carrie. carrie has been single for a long time now and i do understand that time tick tacks really fast.

i can't imagine how many single women feel the pressure of this couple-crazed world but i hope we'd value ourselves high no matter what. my hubby yenzi also had a girlfriend back when we started going out. when he told me about her, i immediately shut him out even if he said they were on the verge of breaking up (fyi,men always say that). yes, i was single then , just came out of a series of frustrated dates and i reaaalllly liked him...but i swear i turned him down.

would you believe, after two days, he made himself completely available. so please carrie don't fret. the right one will come so they say.

to rip a line from He's Just Not That Into You (which i lent you but you didn't read) --unless he's all yours...he's still hers.